The Effect of dua on Marriage – A Personal Experience
Dua To Resolve Marriage Problems, People often say that marriage is always a rosy journey, but the truth is that relationships always face ups and downs. I remember a time when things weren’t going well in my marriage. Little things were starting to go wrong, and I often wondered if the relationship could ever be revived.
One day, when we had an argument over a trivial matter, I thought, “Is this the same relationship that was once filled with love and understanding?” And that was the moment when I realized something needed to change. Then an old friend told me about a prayer she had used in her marriage. At that moment, I wondered, “Can a dua really make a difference?” But I decided to give it a try.
Let me tell you, that prayer brought me immense peace of mind. And slowly, our conversations became sweet again, and we began to understand each other again. I thought, maybe this was what we needed.
A dua to rekindle love in marriage
“May Allah bless you and bless you and your family.”
(Allahumma inni asaluka khairiha wakhairi ma jiblat alayhi, wa a’uzu bika min sharriha vasr ma jiblat alayhi.)
Meaning in Hindi:
“O Allah! Give me the best of this wife (or husband), and protect me from all her shortcomings.”
This prayer is simple and very effective. I recited it with all my heart and decided to work hard to improve my relationship. It’s not just a prayer, but a prayer that brings inner peace and a sense of freshness to the relationship. But, prayer requires something else.
What else can be done to improve a relationship?
Now, prayer can be effective, but will prayer alone fix everything? Absolutely not. Relationships require work. If we don’t put in the effort, nothing will work.
Listening and Understanding Each Other
Sometimes, we think everything is right, but we ignore what the other person says. Try to listen carefully to your partner. There may be something in their words that you haven’t yet understood.
Forgiving Mistakes
In relationships, we or our partners make mistakes at times. It’s crucial to forgive ourselves and cultivate the habit of forgiving each other. Without forgiveness, a relationship lacks heartfelt connection.
Small Pleasures
Grand gestures aren’t necessary. Sometimes, sending your partner a sweet message or buying them a favorite thing can improve your relationship.
Questioning Yourself
Are you giving the same love and care in your relationship as you once did? Ask yourself, do you need to change something? A relationship requires effort from both parties.
Why is prayer effective?
When we pray, we convey our troubles and dilemmas to Allah. This gives us peace of mind and a better understanding of our relationship. Sometimes we need inner strength to calm our anger and confusion, and prayer provides that strength.
When problems in a relationship escalate, prayer comforts our hearts and gives us the strength to stay on the right path.
In conclusion…
I know there are times in marriage when we feel like everything is over. But, if we put in our heartfelt effort and work hard to maintain our relationship, no difficulty can break us. Prayer can help, but we also have to take responsibility for maintaining truth and love in that relationship.
Have you ever experienced such a prayer? Or do you have any other ways you use it to save your relationship? I would love to hear your experiences.
Remember – both hard work and sincere prayers are necessary in a relationship.
