Istikhara for Marriage is an important decision in every person’s life. It is not just the union of two individuals but also the union of two families. When you are trying to choose the right partner for marriage and have questions in your heart and mind, the Islamic method of ‘Istikhara’ can guide you. In this article, we will understand every aspect of “Istikhara” in simple and heart-felt language. Let’s find out how this process can brighten your life.
What does Istikhara mean?
Istikhara is an Arabic word which means “asking Allah for good”. When a person is confused about any decision, he prays to Allah to show him the right path. Especially in the case of marriage, this becomes very important as it is a lifelong decision. Have you ever wondered, “Is this person right for me?” If yes, then Istikhara can be the answer to all your questions.
How is Istikhara done?
The method of Istikhara is very easy and straightforward. Anyone can do this, just have sincerity in the heart and faith in Allah. Let’s understand it step by step:
Perform Wudhu:
Take care of cleanliness. By performing Wudhu you purify yourself. Did you know that performing Wudhu also cleanses your soul?
Pray Namaaz:
Pray two rak’at Nafl Namaaz. Focus your attention on Allah in Namaaz. This is the time when you can put all your problems before Allah.
Make Dua:
After Namaaz, make a special Dua of Istikhara. This Dua is in Arabic, but you can understand it in your own language as well. Dua means asking Allah for guidance.
Sleep:
After making Dua, go to sleep. It is not necessary to think that you will get the answer in a dream. Just have faith in Allah.
Pay Attention:
Notice the comfort or restlessness you feel in your heart. This can be a sign from Allah.
Why is Istikhara for marriage important?
Sometimes family, society and personal desires all together confuse your mind in the decision of marriage. In this situation, you should seek the help of Allah. Have you ever felt that a big decision in your life automatically went in the right direction? This is the mercy of Allah. Istikhara is also a means of that mercy.
Removes confusion:
When you are unable to understand what is right, Istikhara resolves your confusion.
Gives peace to the heart:
When you seek advice from Allah, your heart gets a different kind of peace. It gives you mental peace.
Brings you closer to Allah:
Your prayers and duas during Istikhara bring you closer to Allah.
Signs after Istikhara
Many people think that after Istikhara they will get a clear sign in the dream. But this is not necessary. Allah can indicate you in different ways.
Dreams:
Sometimes you may see something in a dream that makes your decision easier. For example, white or green color can indicate happiness and yes.
Heart inclination:
If your heart leans towards a decision and you feel relaxed, it can also be a sign.
Obstacles:
If there are repeated obstacles in a task, it can be a sign from Allah that it is not right for you.
Is Istikhara only for marriage?
Absolutely not. Istikhara can be done for every small and big decision. But since marriage is a very big decision, special care should be taken while doing it.
Personal experience: Have you felt this?
When people say that they did Istikhara and found the right path, their confidence increases further.
“I remember, when my marriage was being talked about, I was very confused. I did Istikhara and I got such relief that cannot be expressed in words.” – Story of a happy couple.
You too can experience this beautiful ritual of Islam.
क्या आप भी अपनी उलझन दूर करना चाहते हैं? क्यों न आज ही इस्तिखारा कीजिए और अल्लाह से मदद माँगिए। हो सकता है, आपकी जिंदगी का सबसे बड़ा फैसला आज आसान हो जाए।
